Is it a form of mental abuse

In a relationship, when a person gives you something that you may think is constant and then it’s taken away for an extended period of time for no apparent reason, with no explanation, is that mental_ Sonya:I’m introverted, and have no friends by choice. I genuinely see having friends and maintaining relationships as more of a [...]
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Margarita:
My boyfriend is doing that too because he's taken me on dates when I did not have a job and he's given me rides to my new job which is gas.
(4 February 2017)

Shila:
Me and my wife want to become an escorting couple, any advice from your experience?
(4 February 2017)

Svetlana:
Girl tells you she's lost and gonna be studying a lot this weekend could it mean she wants your help?
(4 February 2017)

Dorla:
I am Falling for a man that works for my Father and Brother, but they hate the idea. What do I do?
(4 February 2017)

Dorla:
I am 24 ffs, I live on my own in a different town, but then again it will put so much strain on their work life.
(4 February 2017)

Dorla:
Am I wrong for wanting to just defy them and go for it?
(4 February 2017)

Dorla:
More than I would like to admit.
(4 February 2017)

Dorla:
We have been sneaking around to see each other, but my family has started suspecting us.
(4 February 2017)

Dorla:
Yes he sucks at managing his money, but so did I until about the age of 22. He has been working 3 times harder since my dad said that he is useless, which does not seem like something a useless person would do.
(4 February 2017)

Dorla:
My dad said that he wouldn't be proud to call him his son in law.
(4 February 2017)