The only way to that point was through a hard conversation

My friendship disintegrated in this pattern, and I was the one who pulled away in the guise of niceness. She was, to me, sharpening iron, but she sharpened me in ways I didn’t particularly want to be sharpened. Sometimes that sharpening hurt and I took offense, but I didn’t say anything to her about it._ Shalonda:Whenever [...]
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Lori:
OH she did say her crush for me is probably still there, if she lets it come out.
(3 December 2016)

Lori:
Or should I play it cool as friends for awhile?
(3 December 2016)

Lori:
Should I initiate a relationship by just asking her to be my girlfriend and see how that is before I go visit or attempt to move?
(3 December 2016)

Lori:
I'd have the money to go visit (or maybe move) out there with her.
(3 December 2016)

Lori:
I asked if I could visit her and she said of course.
(3 December 2016)

Lori:
She says im really sweet, she flirts back.
(3 December 2016)

Lori:
We hadn't talked in a couple years so I added her on Facebook and we've been talking the past few days.
(3 December 2016)

Lori:
She used to live here and have this crush on me but she moved away too quick.
(3 December 2016)

Chelsey:
Do I go to an engagement party I wasn't formally invited to?
(3 December 2016)

Chelsey:
Am I wrong in thinking this way?
(3 December 2016)