Selective woman seeking same for a friendship

Educated, mature, selective woman seeking same for a friendship which will hopefully lead to sparks. I enjoy an active lifestyle and would like to find a man who also values fitness and fun. I am single and not willing to engage in affairs with married men, so if you are attached please don’t respond! [...]
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Janee:
When he persisted, asking me to come over to his house or work, and we could talk it out, I declined.
(25 October 2016)

Janee:
I explained to him, bluntly, why I was done and no longer wished to have a relationship with him.
(25 October 2016)

Janee:
I had a falling out with my boyfriend of five months and cut ties.
(25 October 2016)

Virgen:
I don't know what to do and am in a bad place.
(25 October 2016)

Virgen:
I feel as though this may be a mistake, but at the same time I keep telling myself that everyone deserves a second chance and that I should at least try.
(25 October 2016)

Virgen:
I love him, but don't understand anything right now.
(25 October 2016)

Virgen:
I want to, yet don't want to be with him.
(25 October 2016)

Virgen:
I broke up with him soon after, but we just got back together.
(25 October 2016)

Virgen:
There are so many emotions and things going through my mind.
(25 October 2016)

Virgen:
I have been raped by two other men, one when I was 4 until I was 12, and the other for about year ages 15-16. I didn't know how to respond.
(25 October 2016)